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We need to Talk About ‘The Table’

Sifa — Mon, 01 Dec 2025 14:13:26 +0000

When people ask, “What do you bring to the table?” many panic because they assume it is about money. But money is only one piece of the puzzle.

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Sister Joy: Let’s Talk About GBV

Sifa — Tue, 25 Nov 2025 10:43:36 +0000

Let’s normalize saying this loudly:
“You made me do it” is NOT an apology.

Please don’t validate nonsense.
Don’t excuse violence.
Don’t normalize someone raising their hand on you. It is not love. It will never be love.

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Sister Joy ep.9; The Church Hopping Culture

Sifa — Mon, 10 Nov 2025 19:48:02 +0000

SO SISTER JOY, WHAT FAMINE IS TRYING TO MAKE WANT TO SHIFT TO THAT NEW CHURCH again. What makes you think God doesn't give visibility. Why are you helping him. How does moving 6 times in a year not alarming to you?? ... Wewe utawezana na till death do us part kweli?? On a serious note?

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Tribute to the Great Minister Osinachi

Sifa — Wed, 30 Apr 2025 18:56:16 +0000

Minister Osinachi didn’t just sing—she interceded. Her songs were altars, her voice a cry from the secret place. And yet, behind the anointing was a silent agony. She died not just as a wife, but as a martyr of misunderstood faith and ignored cries for help. This is my tribute to her. It’s also a call to the Church: to listen better, counsel wiser, and never let prayer be an excuse for inaction.

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The Pre-Frontal Lobe Development Toxic Love

Sifa — Fri, 07 Mar 2025 22:48:04 +0000

Then one day, just out of the blues, the lingering question comes like it always has for years… “will you still take him if he came back today?” and a resounding “NO” becomes the answer. And you are shocked because, how could you!! Why? … And the answer comes, “Time”.

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The Interesting Side of the Wait

Sifa — Sun, 09 Feb 2025 19:46:41 +0000

Waiting can feel like an unwelcome spotlight—just like that stubborn pimple that appears right before a big event. But here’s the thing: what you do in the wait determines whether it fades away or leaves a lasting scar.

In The Other Side of the Wait, we dive deep into the pressures of singleness, family expectations, and the wisdom of waiting on God’s best. Because beyond the frustration of "Ako wapi mutu?", lies a greater question—Who are you waiting with?

This read is for every 20Fine+ Christian woman navigating this side of the wait with faith, wisdom, and joy. And trust me, when the time comes—we’ll be right there to celebrate with you!

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How to Handle Ovulation Season as a Christian

Sifa — Wed, 29 Jan 2025 19:14:13 +0000

Struggling with emotions and temptations during ovulation? Discover faith-based strategies for navigating this season with wisdom, self-awareness, and accountability. Learn how journaling, prayer, and godly friendships can help you stay strong in your pursuit of purity.

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Staying Rooted in Faith During Campus Life

Sifa — Tue, 28 Jan 2025 04:31:29 +0000

Campus life is an exciting phase filled with new friendships, independence, and the challenge of balancing academics with…

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Campus Diaries: Mistakes, Memories, and Growth

Sifa — Mon, 27 Jan 2025 03:49:47 +0000

Campus life—just thinking about it brings a joy to my heart. Writing about this campus edition is truly…

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My Red Mountain Bike and Lessons in Faith

Sifa — Sat, 25 Jan 2025 20:09:41 +0000

I never loved bikes growing up because they always reminded me of the night that my mum was…

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