WHAT ARE WE??
This is a position and a question that you should never find yourself asking.
If at all you are asking this question, receive my heartfelt hugs SISTER JOY. Whether you’re asking yourself or asking Him.
Well, let’s just say you have found yourself asking that question
Then let the answer that he gives you be so clear that you never have to ask that question again.
Else if you are constantly asking someone “WHAT ARE WE?” and not getting a clear response then, Kairetu you are NOTHING. There’s NOTHING happening there, YOU ARE NOT THE ONE. That is why he has not given what you guys are a name. YOU ARE NOT ANYTHING Mrembo. MURIFE RUN.
It is not a fault on your end. However respect and love yourself enough to walk away when this happens.
As a woman, Sister JOY, You deserve clarity at it’s PEEK and if someone is not giving you that especially in terms of your status in their lives. WALK AWAY, with your head held high and walk away soon.
Please I don’t mean asking this question after TWO DAYS, of knowing each other, I mean after something like:
7 DATES,
VERY LOOOOOONG frequent PHONE CALLS,
CONSTANT CHATS on WHATSAPP,
MANY PLUS ONE EVENTS where you always blush when it comes to introducing yourself ( only you can define how much is too much at this point. But a girl always knows when she’s being led on.)
You know you are being led on SISTER JOY stop over spiritualizing it
1. NO MAN IS TOO SHY TO DECLARE HIS INTENTIONS. If they haven’t declared it after a considerable amount of time, then YOU ARE NOTHING.
By nothing I mean, start going out for those dates that you were feeling guilty to go to because of him. And start doing something with your weekends and holidays. KAMA UKO SOKO UKO SOKO, ACT LIKE SOMEONE AKO SOKO PRIS, do it with no apologies.
2. NO MAN IS TOO SPIRITUAL TO DECLARE HIS INTENTIONS ( if minister Theophilus found words even in his quest of taking us to realms of heaven, so can that man, if you are the right woman for HIM). I say this with all due respect to the MOG
This is the math, YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF AND ONLY IF (IFF) THE MAN USES HIS ACTUAL WORDS (not implied) TO SAY SO, ELSE, YOU ARE NOTHING, like you are not a thing.
At 20fine+ years, you should never answer COMPLICATED as a relationship status please. You are of the LIGHT and your FATHER IS NOT THE AUTHOR OF CONFUSION.
