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The Best Guide for a Bride Planning a Wedding

Hello, MADAM BRIDE…

Your line up does not have to have 10 pairs of wasimamizi imagine. It can be as small as 2 pairs. I’d rather have 3 pairs of close friends than 15 pairs of people that am forcing to fit in_ all because I want the photos to look great.

Madam bride,

did you know that your wedding does not necessarily need to have kids.

Wakisumbua watoe please (poleni Mimi I would want kids because I have like 5 kids that have personally requested to be in the line and keep asking when the wedding is happening “that question ask God” ) am just saying it’s alot of stress to handle 10 kids aki. If the parents are cooperative and willing they will not give you a hard time.

Actually sorry to say, the most entitled parents hata si marafiki ni family members that you have never seen and never even made a contribution to your wedding in the committee.

I know ria jaa retiejagwo iriku ( something about neighbours and digging holes), but still can we come at a compromise.

MADAM BRIDE,

It could be that maybe all your besties are married by the time you tie the knot. The wedding is yours and your married girlfriends can be your bridesmaids. I have not seen anywhere, where the restriction says it’s only unmarried that can be your bridesmaids, at least it’s not in the bible.

MADAM BRIDE

No one said that the family members should simamia as well, what’s this am hearing you want the daughter of your father’s cousin to be on the line up because the mother who you’ve never met until your ruracio requested it.

MADAM BRIDE,

If you asked someone to be in the line up and found an alternative to replace them, it is only fair that you call them back and at least tell them at least. Sio Fiti kuwacha mtu ajijazie ( personal experience, still hurts .. wacha niende nikaskilie vibaya na huko.)

MADAM BRIDE,

The Church is not obligated to make your dream wedding come to pass, so lower your expectations. Do not be entitled that they owe you the grand wedding just because you serve or any other petty reason that you might come up with. Wedding preparations can leave you so hurt to the extent that you end up leaving church,but it’s not their obligation imagine.

MADAM BRIDE,

When it comes to contribution for your wedding. Ask God for favour. Ask God to put you need in the hearts of the people. When God puts you in the heart of people, the money will come. May you ooze that favour of God.

MADAM BRIDE,

If the budget doesn’t allow you to have everyone at the wedding, you can do an invites only kind of arrangement. You don’t have to start your forever, with a loan.

As a previous sister Joy in this story I know how it feels to know in hindsight that you were a by the way and the guilt of not saying NO because every girl should celebrate MADAM BRIDE even if it costs you an arm and a leg.

As a future MADAM BRIDE, I understand that my wedding day is the best day of MY life. That stated, it shouldn’t be at the expense of other people who I have not invested my relationship with enough to demand such bold sacrifices from. That there is room for adjustments and renegotiation.

FINALLY, PRAYER keeps BRIDES sane. DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT LET THE STRESS MAKE YOU PRAYERLESS.

Adiós, see you in the next wedding

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