HELLO MISS WASHINGTON
There’s this woman’s voice in my head that makes me feel guilty when I decide kufulisha nguo. The voice is so loud to the point that aki hata when I have the money I end up kujifulia on Sato because, well, I feel like this woman is judging me and looking at me in disdain. Like am a failure to my gender.
Yaani, babegal decides gũkumutha Mifuto na mikono na saa hizo pesa ziko Kwa mfuko. To make the woman living in my head rent free happy.
Sasa, I have decided kushuka hiyo gari ya Satos are for Laundry ( might be for laundry but it’s not written anywhere that it has to be me doing it).I have decided kuzima iyo sauti ya that woman because she doesn’t make me feel guilty when I wake up early to go to work. Or when I sleep late to look for that money.
Sister joy, there’s nothing about kufulisha nguo as an unmarried woman that will make you less than imagine;View it this way, you’re CREATING EMPLOYMENT
If we are following the PROVERBS 31 woman, hakufua nguo aki, she delegated the duties that she deemed worth delegating.
Dear Miss, do not hold back the good things of life in the name of “when I get married”…surely hata kufulisha nguo ni kitu ya kungoja upate mzee ndio uenjoy. That is so selfish of you; imposing so much pressure on someone you haven’t even met is illogical. Imagine that person is human.
That stated, kama umebarikiwa and can even afford a washing machine, wewe nunua Kwanza with Flexpay it’s very easy.
There’s no certificate that women get by breaking their backs doing laundry ( may uko 1900s , sio sai).
If you are at the level of kufulisha and can comfortably do so, take it as an employment creation opportunity and thank God you’re doing it.
Please…Don’t come to me with am extravagant or slacking, no, am not and neither are you. Don’t say you can’t afford because I know you can. You see That guy you just met that unataka kununulia gift set ya 3,999 ya birthday yake next week , ebu imagine umefulisha nguo for 3 months na hiyo pesa.
We are so loud about doing things for other people and when it comes to doing things for ourselves is where you draw the line.
You and I know that story ya kufulisha nguo is not about the money that you can’t afford but about thinking you don’t deserve kufulisha or thinking it’s a waste of money ( it becomes a waste when you’re spending on yourself). So yenye umesave so far what have you done with it.
Here’s our new girl math on gifts and doing big things for people … IF I CAN’T GIFT MYSELF THAT GIFT ( VALUEWISE) THEN NO ONE DESERVES THE GIFT ( jipende mami)
One thing that am learning about SISTER JOY’S gender, is that she will always be judged harshly. So better be judged for being in your soft girl era, let the Washingtons keep washing.
Alafu, ukifulisha nguo babegal, toka Kwa nyumba, trust the mama fua, hata enda Kwa kahoteli and stay there mpaka akucall akimaliza. Na usiweke nguo 4 months juu unajua unafulisha, that’s inhuman plus nguo zako zitaspoil.
There’s this lot of sister Joys who fulisha and still want to ‘help’ mama fua kufua. You have paid for a service allow the mama fua do her job. Alafu usiover bargain mamaá. There’s bargaining alafu there’s exploitation. Alafu kumsaidia kufua ndio ulipe nusu and you can afford kamami eish!
If anyone thinks you’re less than for seeking laundry services let them and don’t explain. If anyone feels you will not make a good wife because you don’t bend to wash clothes on Saturday, huyo wacha aendee his mate huko 1970s.
Story za gũcunuka mikono every weekend juu ya kufua mummy jeans na mikono surely akuna points zinakupea.
If you’re looking for points, try being YOU, UNAPOLOGETICALLY, a woman, gentle, kind and love yourself enough to know when to delegate.
Alafu at least now you will have an answer to give to those who ask you ” wewe na huna watoto unafanya nini na pesa yako?” You can now shamelessly answer, “Nafulishanga nguo.”
